Twenty-Five Suggesions for a Happy Marriage -Sam @ Danna Swansen 1. Be faithful to each other - the rewards are beyond measure. 2. Do not go to bed with an argument lift unsettled. Settle it even if you have to stay up all night. 3. Do not argue about more than one thing at a time. Do not bring up what is past. 4. Share porblems - workloads, etc. "60/60" so that nothing falls through the grates. 5. Be each other's best friend. 6. Communicate- communicate- communicate. 7. Do not nag- there must be another way to get your partner's attention. 8. Only shout when the house is on fire. 9. Respect the need of each ot sometimes do something all alone. 10. THe best money manager should manage the money subject to the overall diretion of the marriage partners. 11. Make time for each other. Never be too busy to set aside some quality time for each other. 12. Have chidren when you want them. Do not have them to hold a marriage together. It is hard enough being a child without having to carry parental baggage. 13. Do not become each other's "mother"- each already has a mother. 14. It is important that you both encourage each other to reach his/her potential. 15. Discipline the children when the misstep arises, but be consistent with your spouse. Adopt the lowest common denominator approach and work out your differences in approach away from the children. 16. As marrage partners decide questions by unanimous agreement even if you have to sleep on the question before reaching consensus. 17. Decide for your own life whether Jesus of Nazareth is Jesus the Christ. 18. remember that careers are ameans to create sustenace for the love that first brought you together and notan end in themselve. 19. No one in this worl is worthy of more repect than the person who married you. 20. Ast yourself at the end of each day, if I asked her/him to marry me now, would she/he say yes? 21. To the outward word each of you has the authority to speak for and bind your marriage partnership: use hat authority carefully. 22. Have children that you may better understand your place in God's creation. 23. Find a religious community to become a part of. People are at their best when they act on concerns beyond themselves. 24. Kepp up family ties - they endure. 25. Your marriage is of prime importance: keep friends, in- laws, things and activities in proper perspective. 스완슨 할아버지가 나에게 주신 결혼에 대한 25가지 제안서이다. 내가 다음달에 25살 된다고 하니 결혼이라는 주제에대해 생각해 볼만한 문제라고 하시며 연주회 날 주셨다. 변호사 아니랄까봐 요목조목 적어두신것 같다. ㅋㅋ 좋은 말씀 마음에 세길련다.
Twenty-Five Suggesions for a H
Twenty-Five Suggesions for a Happy Marriage
-Sam @ Danna Swansen
1. Be faithful to each other - the rewards are beyond measure.
2. Do not go to bed with an argument lift unsettled. Settle it
even if you have to stay up all night.
3. Do not argue about more than one thing at a time. Do not
bring up what is past.
4. Share porblems - workloads, etc. "60/60" so that nothing
falls through the grates.
5. Be each other's best friend.
6. Communicate- communicate- communicate.
7. Do not nag- there must be another way to get your partner's
attention.
8. Only shout when the house is on fire.
9. Respect the need of each ot sometimes do something all
alone.
10. THe best money manager should manage the money
subject to the overall diretion of the marriage partners.
11. Make time for each other. Never be too busy to set aside
some quality time for each other.
12. Have chidren when you want them. Do not have them to
hold a marriage together. It is hard enough being a child
without having to carry parental baggage.
13. Do not become each other's "mother"- each already
has a mother.
14. It is important that you both encourage each other to reach
his/her potential.
15. Discipline the children when the misstep arises,
but be consistent with your spouse. Adopt the lowest
common denominator approach and work out your
differences in approach away from the children.
16. As marrage partners decide questions by unanimous
agreement even if you have to sleep on the question before
reaching consensus.
17. Decide for your own life whether Jesus of Nazareth
is Jesus the Christ.
18. remember that careers are ameans to create sustenace
for the love that first brought you together and
notan end in themselve.
19. No one in this worl is worthy of more repect than
the person who married you.
20. Ast yourself at the end of each day, if I asked her/him
to marry me now, would she/he say yes?
21. To the outward word each of you has the authority to
speak for and bind your marriage partnership:
use hat authority carefully.
22. Have children that you may better understand your
place in God's creation.
23. Find a religious community to become a part of.
People are at their best when they act on concerns
beyond themselves.
24. Kepp up family ties - they endure.
25. Your marriage is of prime importance:
keep friends, in- laws, things and activities in proper
perspective.
스완슨 할아버지가 나에게 주신 결혼에 대한 25가지 제안서이다.
내가 다음달에 25살 된다고 하니 결혼이라는 주제에대해
생각해 볼만한 문제라고 하시며 연주회 날 주셨다.
변호사 아니랄까봐 요목조목 적어두신것 같다. ㅋㅋ
좋은 말씀 마음에 세길련다.