I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are best friends and up until about 3 months ago, I felt that we were absolutely meant for each other. We have been planning our life, wanting to get a house and get married. The only problem is that I feel no sexual attraction to him. I will still hook up with him so I can please him and it's not that it is bad sex, but I just do not get pleasure from it. I do not even have the desire to kiss him. I have cheated on him a couple times in the past but that meant nothing to me. Now I have met another guy that I have great sexual chemistry with and I can picture a life with him, even though it has only been a few monthes, we are just so similar. I wonder to myself if it will be like this in 3 years with this new guy. Will he love me as much as my current boyfriend and will we be as best of friends? I feel that I have fallen out of love with my current boyfriend romantically but still love him as a best friend. If I leave this other guy do you think my loving feelings will come back for my bf? Or should I break his heart and perhaps lose him forever?
Sexual attraction and love