Hot issue;

These days DIVORCE is the hot issue in the world not only here in Korea. In most developed countries, there is the high rate in divorce. Everybody knows that the divorce is the break or end up the relationship of someone with his/her partner. There is the VAST difference between a man and a woman. The gender different is nothing but the responsibilities or the duties they have is totally different.

I've found that woman has more works to do. People say that a woman hasn't too much work to do except giving birth of child, take care of them and household works. Even a woman has just these works, it's too much but she has thousands of other works.

Well, When a woman is married with a man, she become a wife of someone, daughter- in- law of someone, sister-in-law of someone, brother-in-law and so on. She becomes far from her own parents, brothers, sisters, friends and so on. Everything will be new for her. At first, it becomes very hard to adjust in a new family for her. The second, Parents-in-law never think her as their daughter. The third, She has to arrange everything in a family like food, CHORES and so on by herself. Most husbands and parents-in-law never understand her that what are difficulties she is facing in a new family. They just think that she MUST DO EVERYTHING. If she is taking care of Parents-in-law, parents-in-law never satisfy even she did her best for them. They never satisfy with her activities. They complain with their son that she is doing nothing good. Most husbands just believe and listen their parents but never try to understand her wife. Absolutely, parents are great for us and we must do our best to make them happy but why we want our wife to make our parents happy? Why we never think about our wife's parents? Why we don't visit more often to our wife's parents home? Why we are the guest if we visit our wife's parents home but why our wife have to do all things by herself? Is there any husband who ever cleaned your wife's parents home? Have you(husband) ever washed your wife's parents's clothes? If not, why you(husbands) expect these all things with your wife? There are lots of other things we all expect with our wife.

These kinds of work is not difficult for us. Our wife can do such thing but it would better if we say thanks for her good work. It would better if we satisfy with her great work. It would better if we ever try to think by her side. It would better to support and help her. It would better to cope the difficulties together with her. It would better to share her sadness. But we aren't doing it.

Such activities bring misunderstanding and dissatisfy in a family. If our wife ask for help or she reject to do something, we say earful, we hate her. These are the characteristics of DIVORCE. After divorce, we'll know the reason why she left us. We'll know what kinds of difficulties she has faced while she was with us. We'll know that we must understand our wife but it's already TOO LATE. We must think before everything happened.

LOVE, PEACE, CARE, UNDERSTANDING, CONVERSATION, SHARING & TRUST are the normal things that we need in our family. You are a SPECIAL member of your family. You can make your family happy and satisfy.