All the signs are there -- if you know how to read them
I get so many emails from men asking me this question: "How do I know if she is attracted to me on date?" 남자들이 궁금해하는 그것? 그녀가 나와의 데이트중에 나에게 끌리는지를 알수는 없을까요? This a great question, and knowing the answer will make going in for that kiss become her idea and not yours. That's right, guys -- the first kiss has to be her idea. She has to want it and desire it, and learning what her body language is saying is key to the first kiss and knowing if she is attracted to you. When you are out on a date, sit across from her at a table, or if you are about to sit in a booth, let her sit down first and see where she invites you to sit. Some women will invite you to sit right down next to them in the booth and some will not. If she invites you to sit down next to her, she is telling you that she has an initial attraction to you. 첫번째 키스를 그녀가 원해서 한다면? 좋은 증거겠죠, 그밖에 많은 단서들을 알려드리죠,예를들어 테이블에 앉을때 그녀를 먼저 앉으라고 해보세요, 만일 그녀가 당신을 옆자리에 앉으라고한다면? 그게 바로 단서입니다, 끄리고 있다는거죠
Be a listener, not a talker 먼저 들어주세요^^ 당신이 긍정적인 사람임을 보여주세요!
The first step to making the date a true success is to listen to what she is saying.
The first step to making the date a true success is to listen to what she is saying. Pay attention to the details, and react to what she has to say. That does not mean that you can't share a story or two about yourself, but the best dates are the ones where you're in a listening and reacting mode rather than a talking and bragging mode. Of course, she wants to hear about who you are and what you are all about. She does not want to hear you brag about how much money you have or how successful you are. She also does not want to know about your negative dating history. She wants to know about what you have learned in life to this point. 데이트에 성공하려면 그녀가 말하는 것을 들어주세요, 관심을 갖고 반응을 해줘요, 당신에 대해 말하지 말라는건 아닙니다만 그녀가 정말 듣길 원하는것은 너저분한 당신의 성공담과 모험담이 아니라 그녀의 관심에 대한 당신의 삶을 통한 경험적 생각들입니다, 그녀 왈: 난 요즘 파마머리가 하고싶은데 어쩔지 고민이야 남자 왈: 난 요즘 헬스장에 몸만들러 다니는데 이것좌 알통 좀 나오지 않았냐?(아니죠) 그분 왈: 난 요즘 연예인들이 파마하는것을 많이 봐 왔어, 특히 갈색염색을 하면 더 예뻐 보이더라, 너같이 달걀형 얼굴에는 파마도 어울릴거야, 파마하러갈때 나랑 같이 갈꺼지? 내가 봐줄께(사소한 관심표현, 이거죠!)
She wants to see how positive a person you are, and she wants to imagine being able to hang out with you.
She wants to see how positive a person you are, and she wants to imagine being able to hang out with you. There is a lot to learn about a first date. I really suggest you book one hour of phone time with me to go over all of this. So if you desire to be the guy who women want, then email me right now and let's book that hour.
How to read body language cues 어떻게 그녀의 바디 랭귀지 속 사랑의 단서들을 알아낼까요?
Now what type of body language should you be looking for when you're sitting across from her at that table? Pay attention to her eyes. One sign of attraction is when her eyes are open really wide, and her pupils are enlarged when you are talking or when she is talking to you. Another sign of attraction is that when you are speaking, she will lean her body into you and literally be drawn in with your words. She will not get up and go to the bathroom. She will sit there and not want to miss a single second of the date: 당신을 바라볼때 그녀의 눈을 보세요 눈이 커지고, 당신이 말하는 동안에 자리를 비우지 않을겁니다 She will not look at her watch.시계도 안보고 She will not look around the room. 주위를 둘러보지도 않을 거에요 She will be totally fixated on you the whole time. 정날로 당신에게만 집중할겁니다 She will play with her hair and lick her lips before she moves towards you, because she is creating a sexual feeling inside her. 머리를 넘기가나 당신에게 다가가기 전에 입술을 반짝이게 한다면 그녀는 성적 감정을 떠올리고 있다는 거라네요^^ She will reach her hand across the table and glance at yours.손을 테이블쪽으로 놓고 당신을 바라 볼거에요 She will touch your shoulder or another part of you very casually. 가끔은 당신의 어깨나 다른 신체부위에 접촉을 할겁니다 When she is speaking, she will touch her leg or her face, imagining it was you who was touching her.그녀가 말하면서 자신의 다리나 얼굴을 만지면 당신이 그러는 것을 상상하고 있는 것이랍니다(와우) There are many others, but these are a few good ones to get you started.Keep in mind that what she is doing and communicating with her body is on a subconscious level.
Keep in mind that what she is doing and communicating with her body is on a subconscious level. She is not aware of what she is doing, and that is what makes this so powerful. One last thing: How do you know after all of this that she wants the kiss? She wants the kiss if, when you walk her to the car, she lingers and keeps talking and looking at you. What you do then is go in, move towards her lips, and see what she does. Then pull to the side and give her a hug. This will create tension. If she then talks more, look at her, touch her face and move in for the kiss 그녀의 몸이 어떻게 말하는지 집중하며 그녀의 잠재의식 속 단서들을 읽어내세요, 마지막으로 키스를 얻어내는 방법? 본인이 해석 해보세요^^ ㅋㅋㅋ
