안녕하세요...

참,,,말하기힘든일이고,안쓰러운우리언니에대해물어좀보려구여.

무슨말부터해야할지여...

저희언니올해36이구여..어릴적결혼해..이혼도한번해봣구...

지금은정말착한형부와재혼해,,,살아가는데..

언니가어느날부턴가,,아이들이보고싶어하고,,아이들한테해주고싶은건많은데해줄건없고...신세원망하며,너무나도괴로워하더니...어느날부턴가..술을입에대기시작했어여.

저희언니..술?전혀마실줄도몰랐고,,어린적부터혼자떨어져살아서...정말열심히살았는데,그냥안쓰러워여...

8년전에지금의형부와재혼을하게됫는데...

형부말씀은...그아픔들을잊으려,언니가하루가멀다하고,술에의지했데여..주위사람들과,밤새면서까지

술마시고들어오기일쑤고...

형부는그런언니가안쓰러워,좀더형부가잘해주면되겟지하고...언니한테정말잘해줬데여..제가봐도한없이착한형부거든여...언니의그괴로움들잊게끔...근데언니는,,,휴..

8년동안..정말365일내내술로지새네여....알콜기운떨어지면다시술을마시고...

근데...

어느날부턴가,,,술주정??이라해야되나여,,너무심해졌어여

형부는새벽6시쯤출근하시거든여...

근데언니느밤새술먹고와서,,,술취해서는,하루종일형부핸드폰에전화해서는...큰소리치고,,정말쌍욕까지해대고....형부가일이바뻐전화못받으면,회사에까지전화걸어바꾸라고,난리난리치고....

저희가형제가좀많은데..술만마시면닥치는데로전화해서,,소리지르고,,나죽는다난리치고,,,저,직장다니는데도,,,출근해서일할라치면전화해서,,기분다망쳐놓구...사람미칩니다...

저희가족들...언니전화다피해여...아주못산다구언니때문에...

형부...불쌍합니다...너무나도착하디착한형부.

언니도한없이가엽구여...불쌍하고...(눈물이...)

외...그렇게변하는지..정말모르겟어여...

몇일전새벽한시쯤...형부한테전화가왓더군여...

언니없어졌다구..술만땅취해어디갔는지모르겟다구...

저하고집거리는..너무멀답니다...그야밤에내려갈수도없는일이엇구...

암튼,말도못해여...

울언니...알콜중독맞져...

형부랑..저희가족들...저...수도없이대화도해봤고,술마시지말라제가빌기까지했어여..

안마신다,,다신안마신다..맹세하면뭐합니까,,,

뒤돌아서또마시는걸..

근데..이젠저도지치네여...8년간그모습지켜본형부....

형부도지쳐간다하더군여...

친언니라안보구살수도없는일이구...

어찌하면될까여....병원에데려가서상담치료받게해야되는건지...잘,모르겟어여..

술안마시면..정말360도멀쩡해여...애교넘치고,성격활달한언니라...전혀다른사람처럼....

근데술만마시면....일하고온형부한테도,,,이새끼저새끼하며,,너나가라고,,어디들어오냐구,,병신이라할때잇구....암튼심해여...

동생이나같음때려라도주져...

많이속상합니다...이글을쓰는바로전에도...언냐술취해서전화왓어여...

사람미치게해놓구,,,끊어버리데여...

님들아....어찌해야되나여..

정말..심각...심각하거든여...

방법좀...이런가족있으신분이나,,,,경험있으신분들의많은조언부탁들여요...제발~~.